Posts by future Mrs.Kansas

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Thinking of becoming a JW - Need urgent honest advice!!!

by natalienu in

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i have met a wonderful man but unfortunately he is a jw.

i have never been interested or really ever been around any religion in my life so all of this right now is very fascinating to me.

i have been thinking of studying to become one but am also having a hard time finding anything on the net that is positive about it.

future Mrs.Kansas

I'm sorry but if you have to ask someone else their oppinion something is not right there.

I would be very afraid!I was raised a witness,am now a christian.Thank GOD!!!!

Sorry,I'm sure i wasn't much help........

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coming to terms with the fact that jw families really suck!!!!

by freelife in

i know that everyone who is a member of this site has heard the same sob story a million times but, this hopefully can help my healling process.

i have like most everyone else in this site have lost all that i had for friends and family.

i never had realized how tough it was for anyone to have this happen.

Hello,I was also raised in the so called "truth",I can tell you for a fact it is an accult! they threaten you with your life,telling you you're going to die if you're not serving Jehovah.Another thing is they confuse you,because they themselves are confused.Thats why if you were able to speak to a witness and actually do some bible searching before you do that,ask them a few questions.usually they say we'll have to get back with you on that.because they need to get the anwser from someone else,on a subject they should have known on their own.I am a christian,and proud of it.I love my heavenly father and I am so proud to say I have no fear of what man says anymore.It feels good to trully know my heavenly father.yes,I too have lost alot of family members but the bible says that will happen.I just hope you will trully search and pray and ask God to heal you and help you to forgive,thats very important.I know I had a very hard heart for a very long time.

I know you said that you have a new girlfriend maybe she too can have a relationship with our heavenly father.I hope I'm not taliking too much on religion sorry if i am.It took me a long time to get this way.I remember at 18 saying I never want religion.and through my life going back and forth like a yoyo,because of the fear and brainwashing the witnesses instill in our minds from childhood,if their lucky.It took meeting my husband,who went through hell with all of the questions i had and the back firing scriptures,you know how it is..God used my husband to let me know he does love me and he is the truth the way the life.Please dont give up.

I have 5 children and a loving husband,who also loves God as much as I do.We would never do to our children what my mother has done to me.I say mother because my dad is in and out,he's wishy washy,most of them are.Its convenience.My mother gives my brothers and sisters who are still at home birthday gifts but not on their birthdays.as if that makes a difference.

I could go on forever so I'll stop here.I just wanted to say you do have a heavenly father who loves you regardless of what anyone says.Well i'll keep you in my prayers.God Bless,I believe you'll be able to retrieve my e-mail.If you would like my husband could send you some things.I'll hush now.Take care,SMILE!